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This chapter is for my mother and best friend Sally. Her real name is
Linda. Sally is the nickname I gave her years ago & it just stuck. Also
for Papa. He is my stepfather. He has never been critical of me, has
never given up on me and was always there for support.
My mother has always been there for my sister Kristin and I. She was
only working part time when she divorced my father so it was real hard
to make ends meet. But, anything was better then living with an
alcoholic. She really busted her behind to get a better job and she
succeeded. As they say "good things happen to good people".
Mom landed a job with a transit company & drove public bus in Orange
County and L.A. We had just moved from Minnesota to Anaheim California
so the job was tough. A small town to a huge one. OC & LA was a whole
new ballgame!! She always said "I felt like someone dropped me from
another PLANET and said - go find your way."
And she did.
My father told my mom when they split that she would fall flat on her face.
He was soooo wrong!
Soon we had it real good. New shoes and they were Vans, new clothes,
bikes, skateboards, new furniture and a new
(used) car. And all because of her strength and positive attitude that
she could do it.
My papa Drew and my mom met at work. He didn't drink or do drugs and
that was important to her. He has always been there to help her out and
has always been there for us, even through my addiction. Papa is a
quiet and gentle guy and brings great peace and reasoning to our
family. Papa was the one who paid to put me through rehab the second time.
My project with the truck was a great surprise to them. My mom was
especially surprised when I lifted the truck 21", was getting a new
paint job and going full force with my truck. I think she was a little
freaked out I was changing the Avalanche so extremely. But then she
came to see the truck at the Antioch, CA Truck Show. When she saw the
truck finished and standing so tall and bold and saw the slogan
"Project Clean and Sober" I could tell she was very proud of me.
A lot of the trucks in the show have a theme and mine was about
sobriety and that put a smile on her face.
Of course things aren't always smooth with this project. One night in
Scotts Valley while I was sleeping some vandals struck. They proceeded
to throw beer bottles and food all over my truck. It looked like they
also gave it some swift hard kicks as there were many dents. Did they
do it for kicks, did they do it because of the slogan or was it just
out of meanness. I do not know. Needless to say, when I saw it my heart
sank. To the rescue, Sally & papa. They helped get the Avy back to tip
top condition. Yes, they are ALWAYS THERE for me.
I know Sally and papa will read this chapter soon. All I can say is -
thank you both so much for everything you two have done for me, even
the "tough love". You are my best friends and I know I can count on you
to be in my corner. I love you more then anything.
They will be retiring to Baja Mexico soon and I wish them the best in
their years to come. By, the way - can I go with.
ONLY KIDDING.!!!!!! I can fly on my own now thanks to you two.
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